Happy Muslim Mama: Weight Loss

I have been sharing my journey to get healthier and lose weight each month through reviewing my word of the year: Health.  After faltering in February and falling back on junk food and bad habits, I decided that I was going to start doing two things, monitoring what I was earing and trying to learn as much as I could about health and healthy eating.

The first thing I did was to get weighed properly.  My own scales will tell you a different weight depending on where you place them.  Of course I look for the spot where it shows the lowest weight.  So when I got myself weighed by the machine at Boots (the pharmacy), my accurate weight was higher than I thought and my score on the BMI (Body Mass Index) was higher than it should be.

I have been monitoring what I eat using the MyFitness Pal app on my phone.  This allows me to log what I eat in a food diary (and how many calories this makes up) and also measures the number of steps I take, so that my exercise can be offset against my calories.  I have found that monitoring what I eat has really raised my awareness of the things that I was eating that seemed small, but were making a difference to me losing weight (such as chocolate and fizzy drinks).

Over the course of March, I have managed to wean myself off most junk food and snacking.  My portion sizes have gotten smaller, I have stopped snacking in between meals and tend to have healthier foods.  I am finding it easier to avoid sugary and fatty foods and snack healthily.  Where I have fallen onto eating junk or too big portions, it feels like too much because my appetite has shrunk.  It helps that my work is busy right now and I am not eating out of boredom too I think.  What is also great is that when I do treat myself to chocolate I don’t feel guilty at all, because the rest of my diet is so much better.

Healthy snacking at work

I am still trying to drink enough water and I am finding I am still pretty bad at this.  I tried adding lemons or limes to water and really liked it.  The citrus fall apart after a while, so I have tried this bottle with a filter in (my green bottle in the picture is this one, which I really like).  Something to keep working at.

I have started to move away from a carb heavy diet to one with protein and much more carbs such as grilled or roast fish or chicken with lots of vegetables or salad.  Sounds like basic common sense, but we are so used to a South Asian diet of chapatti, rice and curry, that this has felt like quite a departure for me in the way I eat.


 I found a lower calorie Asian snack in the form of gol gappay/pani puri which I thoroughly enjoyed.

A treat from my mum – a keema paratha (chapatti stuffed with minced lamb) – definitely not low calorie, but enjoyed guilt free alhamdulillah.

My current reading is Eat. Nourish. Glow. by Amelia Freer.  I have found this accessible and easy to get through.  The focus so far has been on cutting sugar, diary and gluten and increasing veg, healthy fats and protein.  The writer admits that some of this might seem faddish, but believes strongly that these are the things that make a difference in our health.  She offers some examples of foods that we should replace in our kitchen and things to shop for instead.  I am just starting to look through the recipes and the jury is out on whether I think I would want to try them ( the cauliflower pizza with pesto – unlikely, the chicken nuggets with mango salsa, maybe). 

The other book I have been reading is The Bullet Proof Diet by Dave Asprey, the man responsible for “Bullet ProofCoffee” – I haven’t gotten very with this one yet, except it seems to be fairly consistent with Eat. Nourish. Glow in its messages around diary, sugar and gluten, and also funnily enough lentils – a staple food in our home that we are encouraged to eliminate by the book and which I have always viewed as a healthy food.  I haven’t gotten very far with this yet, but I am fascinated with the premise of the book, where the author has spent a great deal of money and conducted research to find the optimum way to lose weight.

The upshot of all of this effort is that I have lost a few pounds.  My kids have noticed because they see me without my abaya at home.  I felt very happy and upbeat for a couple of days and could not figure out why, I suspect that the change in diet and daily walking played their part.  It feels good to start seeing a change and helps me to feel motivated.

Word of the Year for 2016: Health – One Month On
Word of the Year 2016: Health – February Update